Ethical Dilemmas…as simple as whether the ball is in or out?

It’s no secret I work in a profession — public relations — that many don’t consider to be terribly ethical. In fact there are surveys that put their trust in public relations professionals right above used car salesmen and just below lawyers. Ouch! As public relations professionals, we agree to abide by a Code of Ethics in our profession. It’s really not that different from other professions or than my mother taught me growing up.

  • Be Honest and Tell the Truth

  • Advocate for Those we Represent

  • Responsibly Use the Knowledge and Expertise We Have

  • Be Independent and Loyal

  • Be Fair

Looking at these lessons from another perspective, a college friend shared a guide from a professor we all admired. Dr. Ball, who recently turned 95, had an impact on virtually every student who attended Whitman College during the past 40+ years. Dr. Ball’s advice to my tennis-playing friend:

“If you cannot see it, then do not call it out. And if you can see it with a smidge of confidence, then call it out or in with a bit more confidence. If you think your opponent’s shot might have landed on the line, but are not sure, call it in. Always be the bigger player in the calls. And the analogy to life has stuck with me all these years.”

When you look at it like that it doesn’t seem that hard to live an ethical life or practice your profession in an ethical manner. So, why do we find it so hard to do so? I think sometimes we just forget a tenet in the Code. We forget to be sure of what we’re doing and we lose confidence in our own expertise and knowledge. Once that happens, it’s easier to cross the line. If you’re like me you have reminders that help you stay on the “straight and narrow.”

Throughout our professional and personal lives we are faced with many such calls and instances where others don’t always call the game correctly. If we all work together we can help everyone call a better game and be sure the ball stays in the court.

The Barber Group

Gig Harbor, Washington


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